We get approached about once a week for advice on how Gents (and some couples) can successfully break into the swinging lifestyle.
Alex was a successful solo-male in the lifestyle for many years before we met, and Christine has participated in the lifestyle for about 3 years and always as part of a couple.(In fact, we met through the lifestyle, for that story, follow this [link]).
Before we get into some "tips" let's share some facts.
According to a major online dating study, nearly 50% of all profiles con
Once we made the decision to get into escorting and to do it as a married couple we've had a very rapid education.
Here are some of the things we have learned in the 3 weeks since we started.
1) The industry has its own jargon - Wow, this part has been amazing, we have learned that beyond the popularization of common jargon brought to us by various media, that the industry doesn't use these terms at all. First, we learned there is a HUGE difference between hookers, whores, escorts, models, dancers, strippers, service providers, performers and courtesans. Further the consumer of these services are not known as "johns" but gents, gentlemen, hobbyists, clients. We do not perform "tricks", but we have engagements and take appointments or dates. Lastly, payments are typically referred to as donations or gifts. Have you he
We are thankful to everyone who has expressed a sincere interest in meeting with us and making our first year as a couple escort team amazing, unbelievable and better than we had ever hoped or imagined.
We've grown and explored some new interests. We have discovered some fetishes are really fun and entertaining, and there are still some areas that are a little awkward to us, but we enjoy getting the chance to practice and hone our skills.
Over the past year we've encountered a few challenges, but we are persisting through them with fervor, dedication and style.
Early this year we had our TER reviews and membership "banned" due to a conflicting IP address which we went into far more detail about in our reviews section.
This was something of a blessing in disguise as we've learned to better market ourselves & work a little harder a
So, have you ever wondered what a day-in-the-life of a provider is like? Must be pretty easy? Answer a few emails, talk on the phone for a few hours, meet wonderful gentlemen like yourself and play all day. Well this is only the surface of it all. There is a lot of time, money and effort that goes into being a successful provider.
I was chatting with another hobbyist who has now become a friend and I sorta mentioned how much time goes into meeting just one person. He had no idea. So the light bulb came on and I would like to give you a little insight of the day-in-the-life of Christine and Alex.
What does it take for us to meet one gentleman?
We advertise on a few boards and advertising sites to get noticed out there. Well, much more than a few, it's more like 15 and there are new ones we are discovering all the time.
Since we have ventured into the business of being an escort couple, we have received a lot of questions around what made us decide to do this.
So, here's our tale...
We met each other in the swinging lifestyle. Christine was in a long term relationship (LTR) with another man and they enjoyed the company of single ladies, couples and the occasional single male.
Alex has been in and out of the swinging lifestyle since he graduated college. He had recently exited a treacherous LTR and was choosing to meet mostly with couples (or other involved women) to purposely avoid anything that could become a relationship.
Needless to say, Alex was pretty sour on "relationships".
That is until he met Christine. Like Alex, Christine was beginning to become a little jaded toward men, her relationship was good, but had been lacking something deeper. Of course, most
We met each other in the swinging lifestyle. Christine was in a long term relationship (LTR) with another man and they had been enjoying the company of single ladies, couples and the occasional single male for nearly a year.
Her relationship was far from perfect. In retrospect she realized that she had just settled in, happy to be content with mediocre. He was a good man, but there never were any sparks, no passion, no magic.
Christine introduced the idea of swinging to her ex in an effort to "spice things up", not only did he welcome the idea, but he became obsessed with chasing other women.
Alex had been in and out of the swinging lifestyle since he graduated college. He recently exited a treacherous LTR and was choosing to meet mostly with couples (or other "involved" women) to purposely avoid anything that could become a relationship.
Christine and I have noticed that there are quite a few gents who suffer from a very restrictive lifestyle with their SO (or their jobs or both). So we began brainstorming some clever excuses and have posted some of the better ones here.
Most of all, Gents (and Ladies) please share the best excuses you have used to sneak away for an extra hour or two to help your fellow hobbyists enjoy some much needed time with his favorite provider - these can also be used to attend mixers, card parties, tryists etc.
Note: We understand these excuses are very generalized and may not suit 100% of the people 100% of the time, please take liberal creative freedom to adjust to suit your exact situation - also feel free to join a popular discussion forum for help as most communities are all too happy to help you generate a great believable back s
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