Flirty Wife Christine & Horny Hubby Alex

So, here's our tale...

We met each other in the swinging lifestyle. Christine was in a long term relationship (LTR) with another man and they enjoyed the company of single ladies, couples and the occasional single male.

Alex has been in and out of the swinging lifestyle since he graduated college. He had recently exited a treacherous LTR and was choosing to meet mostly with couples (or other involved women) to purposely avoid anything that could become a relationship.

Needless to say, Alex was pretty sour on "relationships".

That is until he met Christine. Like Alex, Christine was beginning to become a little jaded toward men, her relationship was good, but had been lacking something deeper. Of course, most men will assume "deeper" means sexual, and thus they began to "spice-up" their relationship.

When Alex and Christine met, something was very different, from the first minute they were not only attracted to each other, but felt a deep intimate connection they had both longed for - as if they had known each other for years / possibly lifetimes. We believe we are soul-mates and our magical (highly unusual) meeting was part of our destiny. (read the post about how we met here)

Within a few months, Christine had left her ex and into the arms of Alex, they tied the knot a couple months later.

Besides a brief hiatus from the lifestyle we remained active and involved swingers, going to swing parties and mingling with our swinger friends and seeking out new experiences.

We will discuss the swinger lifestyle in another post, but suffice it to say, the lifestyle is far from ideal & glamorous. It is dominated by people who are over weight and could use either a personality or grooming make-over. There is a ton of drama and not everyone is in it for sex. But don't get us started...

We were active on a local swingers board, as you might understand, Christine would evoke a steady volume of responses - most were rude, crude and vulgar. Most were from single men with a healthy portion of couples.

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Sidebar: There are a lot of dynamics at work when trying to get 2 couples together to get hot, horny and open for something physical. Truth is, most foursomes take several meetings to get everyone on the same page - and according to our experience, MOST never get physical.

This is not to be misunderstood - the lifestyle is full of people trying to save their marriage or who love the "idea" of swapping and sharing but in reality are more interested in the potential but nervousness contribute to a majority of flake-outs. (That or the girls have to get stoned drunk).

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Back to our story... Our first couple sent us an email with some pics, but they just sorta fell through the cracks, probably cuz we were both absorbed chasing (or fighting off) other people and we had thought the other had responded.

Some time went by and the couple had assumed we were not interested. So they wrote us again, but this time, they caught our attention. They made us an offer that was very enticing. They wanted to treat us to a fine dinner and an evening at a resort near their place along with a sizable cash donation for our time.

We looked at each other - "wow, someone would pay to be with us?"

Now, they had admitted later that they had never done anything like this before and they were very worried about offending us. But, their offer caught our attention and opened a whole series of conversations between Christine & Alex.

At the same time, we were contacted by someone who claimed to manage several "European" celebrities who have expressed some interest in playing with American swingers - for very healthy compensation of course.

We asked ourselves if we could do this, we asked all the "what-if" questions. We are very fortunate we have each other, as together we were able to flesh out fears, concerns and be totally open and honest about a wide variety of scenarios. In the end, all that communication made our bond even stronger.

After our deliberations, we agreed to move forward.

Though we accurately fleshed out the European manager as a scam artist, the local couple was real, serious and eager to move forward.

The husbands coordinated all our meeting arrangements - and we proceeded to go out on our first escort date, as a couple with another couple.

The night was amazing. It was an incredible treat for the both of us.
(you can read the review for the juicy details).

After this initial experience, our quest was to determine if we might have something rare, but desirable to the hobby (and if it paralleled the swinger lifestyle). Our investigation included joining some discussion boards, reading blogs, and contacting dozens of providers. We intensively researched the escort business for nearly 2 months and we felt very confident we had discovered a specialty niche that might actually be under-served.

In nearly 5 months, we have met with about a dozen clients. About one third see us "regularly", another third are thrill seekers, and the last third are guests from out of town. From couples, solo males, men with bi-curiosities and even other providers - we've seen almost everything.

So far, our experience has been a significant improvement over our prior swinging experience(s) and better than what we imagined - well, except for the part about traveling Europe in the company of celebrities - LOL!

We have probably been most surprised at the number of clients we see who probably don't need to pay, but as we are learning, it's less to do with money, and more to do with value, respect and appreciation. The Clients who pay us do so because they can and because they respect, value and are very appreciative for our companionship - a very rare quality within the swinger community.

The formality of a "transaction" is good for both parties. Our clients avoid drama and are insured their secrets are safe.

Our clients pay us to help them explore erotic fantasy and indulge in something beyond the ordinary. We help them break out of their shell to face their fears to openly and freely enjoy something very special and unique - privately, safely and securely between us of course.

We like to refer to this experience as FWB or Friends With Benefits, its not the same as the Girl-Friend Experience, but for those seeking something new and different, we are your ticket!!!

xxoo

Christine & Alex 

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